“Seduction is an ongoing process that does not end in the first few months but must continue throughout the relationship”. In this essay, the topic of seduction is treated in a new way. The assumption is that a partner must be attracted to him or her even after the initial phase. In order to ensure continuity in the story, it is necessary to maintain lively communication that can guarantee positive emotional involvement. What can we do, then, to achieve long-lasting and satisfying relationships? A good place to start is with advanced dialogue skills in order to use your sensitivity to gently penetrate your partner’s mind.
This book, full of ideas and reflections, will accompany you in the development of new skills (from emotional communication to relational storytelling) to improve your life as a couple and, more generally, the way you relate to the world.
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Synopsis
SEDUCTION IS CONVERSATION
Seduction is a Continuous Process
Things Don't Happen in Love. They Are Made to Happen.
Seduction in the Initial Phase (The Great Classic)
We are Eight Billion, All Different
Seduction is a Question of Values and Dignity
Sniffing the Ass to Know the Air
Deep Talk Beats Cheap Talk at Hands Off
How to Always Look Cool, Even If You Don't Feel Cool
Watch out for Red Flags
Keeping the Conversation Level High
The Damned Conversations Online
The Art of Storytelling to Convey Your Value
Somewhere You Have to Start (First Meeting)
Communication Environment Analysis
Interpreting the Communication Context
Mistrust and Incommunicability
Listening is Always Sexy
The Power of Silence
APPENDIX
Seduction: Perception, Prejudice and Mental Image
Female and Male Signals of Interest
Communication and Objectives
Igniting Emotional Memories Through Stories
INSIGHTS
5 Ways to 'Challenge' by Creating Interest
Igniting a Dialogue with the Mystery Technique
Creating 'Emotional Tension' to Better Understand Men and Women
Creating 'Emotional Tension' With Live Stories
Generating Positive Tension in a Dialogue
How to empathise with a person
Generating Authentic Interest in People
Improvising a Live Story
How to Start Telling an Anecdote
How to Start a Conversation
How to Keep the Level of a Conversation High
Flashback and Flashforward in Relational Storytelling
3 Simple Steps to Tell a Story
Non-Verbal Errors to Avoid
The Weapon of Storytelling in Interpersonal Relations
Tell Your Anecdotes Like a Film
Why Your Dialogues Go Dull
More Charisma and Confidence With 23 Daily Communication Exercises
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